How do you usually make a decision? Do you act impulsively, or overcomplicate?
Knowing our personal quirks and decision drivers can help control irrationality
and impulsiveness, which can then lead to better decisions in tough situations.
Let’s take a look at nine strategies for making better decisions in crucial
1. Weigh the
If you start at the end first, it can help simplify a decision. For
instance, think about what you CAN and CANNOT live with. This can help
eliminate options and keep things in an appropriate perspective.
2. Think first
This one is for the impulsive decision makers out there. When you’re caught
up in the momentum of something, try to take a deep breath. Give yourself a few
seconds to re-evaluate the choice.
3. Do What’s Right
As they say, “You can do what’s right or you can do what’s easy.” The
whistleblowers at Enron, WorldCom, and Madoff had to choose. While their lives
became tough for a while, they could look at themselves in the mirror and sleep
at night knowing they’d done the right thing. We all deserve the same peace of
mind. Choose right over easy.
4. Listen to your Gut
Malcolm Gladwell’s bestselling book Blink
publicized what most of us already knew—sometimes that gut feeling is the right
feeling, even if we don’t know why. If perfectly logical choices—to take a job,
date someone, or purchase something—have our stomachs in knots, we need to
examine that red flag. Many times what we can’t consciously explain can be the
difference between a good choice and something we’ll regret.
Understanding our feelings and how they motivate our behaviors can be the
key to changing personal patterns. We may be surprised by how much of what we
do is based on irrational emotions. Think about that intelligent girlfriend you
know who always dates the wrong men.
6. Feel the pressure
Knowing what is driving the people around us can make a big difference in
the way decisions are made, and the outcomes down the road. Are things being
driven by pride, desire to advance, greed or power trips? Or, is there a truly
sensible reason that the pressure is on? Knowing the answer can help you move
forward or stand clear of unnecessary stress and drama.
7. Know your motive
Deciding something to keep up with the Joneses, because it’s what our
parents want, or to prove something to somebody, can be the right course of
action, but only if we understand what we are doing. Looking at our personal
motives behind a decision can help us evaluate if it is a good choice. If the
answer to “Why am I doing this?” isn’t a motive we’d be proud of, it is time to
re-evaluate that decision.
8. Decide not to decide
When it comes right down to A or B, sometimes the right decision is—C.
Simply say, “I don’t care for either at this time” or suggest a third option to
alleviate the pressure and get a better outcome.
9. Flip a coin
When you get down to A or B and flip a coin, it does more than give you a
choice. It shows you how happy you are with that choice. If you get the outcome
and your heart sinks, then you get an instant read on what your gut thought of
“Entrepreneur mentor Ali Brown teaches women around the world how to start and grow profitable
businesses that make a positive impact. Get her FREE CD “Top 10 Secrets for
Entrepreneurial Women” at www.AliBrown.com“